I was having a brain fart today when I went to my IG (instagram – you can find me there at skinnygirl_rny if you are not already a follower) I asked them for questions, ideas and topics. So here is what they wanted to know,and wanted me to talk about.   DISCLAIMER: I get into… Continue reading Answering questions from IG followers

Now, I don’t normally put out the deepest darkest secrets of my personal life. While I am an open book I do keep some things private. What I am about to tell you is so unreal. I cannot believe it is happening to me. I am having an affair. I was pregnant with my last… Continue reading I am having an affair

I am so blessed to have four beautiful kids. Two boys, and two girls. I had surgery last year and something in me said, to write them these letters. I was so scared I wouldn’t wake up. SO I put these letters and one to my husband on my computer.    Before my surgery I told… Continue reading Letters to my kids

Check out my newest video on youtube   In this video I hope to be able to inspire anyone who has not shared with those they love be able to do so by sharing my video on social networking sites. Remember, if after you share the news, you are treated different, or they don’t show… Continue reading Having trouble telling people?

Watch the video below to find out… Is gastric bypass the easy way out….  

I have started a “goal clothes” stash. Somehow my husband found a pair of the jeans and said. “Honey whose are these?” I told him they were mine. The look on his faced and this comment made me have to take a step back and realize he wasn’t meaning to hurt my feelings. He said,… Continue reading Goal clothes

My daughter and I talking about my surgery. I can’t post the actual video here. If I do, wordpress wants me to pay a lot for an upgrade. So I am using my youtube channel and linking them back here. See the thing is, my kids know my weight has been a very sensitive issue… Continue reading The full video of ….

Only 39 more days until we leave to head to the town where my surgery will take place. Road trips are the best in my family. See in the past couple years my kids went from “are we there yet”? To being so good on long trips. My husband is my best friend and being… Continue reading My excitement is building.

So lets address the over all question I have gotten from one reader and then from a friend of mine. Why do I say “fat girl” why do I say that there is a “trapped skinny girl”? Okay lets not beat around the bush. I am fat. I am not skinny. I am however a… Continue reading Why is it okay for me to say fat girl

Dear Skinny girl, Wow, look at you. You have come so far. You look amazing. As I write this to you now, you are not skinny yet. I threw on size 3xl pj bottoms a 3xl shirt and a really big robe. I took my morning pills, drank some water and got this idea in… Continue reading Dear Skinny girl